I become Danish, I become Korean
I never become Korean, I never become Danish.
Betwixt and Between
trauma – blindness – adoptions fog – identity crisis – identity violation – reunion – no reunion – transformation – identity creation – human trade – capitalism – trade – disconnection – lost language – lost culture – lost family – lost father – lost mother – lost history – lost understanding – no-man’s-land – rootlessness – hybrid – alienation – survival strategy – navigation – narratives – discourse – adaption – adoption – survival – DNA – the bond of blood – the bond of water – a wish child – egoism – power – abuse – falsification – family normalisation – assimilation – division – human rights – human right violation – invisibility – powerlessness – burden – authenticity – right narrative – wrong narrative – motherhood – motherless – fatherhood – fatherless – race – white – yellow – banana – stereotyping – brown – whitewashing – complexity – simplification – birth – relinquishment – sorrow – depression – taboo – shame – cynicism – poverty – culture – structure – lies- inequality – privilege – caring – extermination – oversight — mother love – mother wound- mother denial – primal wound– primal scream- invalidity – – infinity – death – life – orientalism – sexualisation – indifference – brutality – geopolitics – migration – civil rights – no civil rights – social death – legal death – suicide – murder – racism – altruism – alienation – human trafficking – falsified identities – falsified papers – human rights violation –
Adoption:
What happens to a human being when its taken away from its mother right after birth and never united again?
What happens to a human being when its put on a plain to another continent without any relatives?
What happens to a human being when it’s put into a white foreign family?
What happens to the human being as it grows up with these foreign parents, siblings, uncles, and aunts?
What happens to the human being when its told, that it probably does not have parents and a family in its original country?
What happens to the human being when it’s told that it probably was found in a cardboard or trashcan?
What happens to the human being when it’s told that it probably was a product of prostitution?
What happens to the human being when it does not have natural opportunity to socialise or see people of its own ethnicity and race?
What happens to the human being when adoption as such is not being mentioned or talked about as a part of the human being’s life?
What happens to the human being in the identity process and self understanding?
What happens to the human being in its selfvalidation development?
What happens to the human being in the identification of other people in life?
What happens to the human being when it half way through life finds its mother, father, siblings, uncles, aunts, nieces, and nephews?
What happens to the human being when it cannot communicate with its mother, father, siblings, uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, etc?
What happens to the human being when it finds out, it was never suppose to end up in another world on the other side of the globe?
What happens to the human being when it finds out, its mother was forced to give up the human being?
What happens to the human being, when it finds out, her mother was never told what happened to the human being?
What happens to the human being?